Goals for 2009

By riceboyler on Jan 06 2009 | 0 Comments

Time to set some goals for myself for the year.  Hopefully I won’t ignore these…

1. Lose 40 pounds

I think this one is pretty darn self explanatory.  I’ve been flirting with 300 pounds for about 9 years now, and it’s time to actually lose the weight I gained in my first year of marriage.  I need the health benefits, and hey, maybe I’ll be more attractive to my wife. Hubba, hubba… :)

2. Read 10 books

I used to love to read.  I still love to read for learning, but I need to read more than just books about programming languages.  I need to read more spiritual books, and more self-help books.  I’m not much for reading for entertainment, so I’m not even going to worry about that one.

3. Complete one college course

I have to get on the road to finishing my degree at some point.  I can’t think of a better way than actually doing a full college course.

4. Spend at least 4 hours of true valuable time with my kids each week

I’ve gotten much better about this in the past year, but I need to do even more.  I need to spend time with them doing what THEY want to do, not what I want them to do.  They’re getting to that age where they need me to be there for them, and I need to be.

5. Attend the temple at least 6 times

Yeah, had to get a spiritual one in here.  I’ve let my temple recommend go far too unused of late, and I need to be there.

 

For now, that’s it.  Hopefully I can come up with some others in the next few weeks to really push myself this year.  For some reason I have the feeling that this year will be particularly challenging, so I need to get myself ready for it.

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New Year – New Theme!

By riceboyler on Jan 05 2009 | 0 Comments

Well, I’m really happy that the BlogEngine.NET guys were able to get their theme pack for 1.4.5 out (it’s available on CodePlex, just click here), so I decided to change themes for the new year.  If I can make the time, I’ll probably work on my own sometime this year.

Hopefully, I have time to sit down and make some real goals, but this could be a bit of a challenging year, I have a feeling.  Strange saying that going in, but something just tells me there are going to be challenges everywhere.  Lots of growth potential, huh?

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Happy New Year (version 2009.1.2)!!!

By riceboyler on Jan 02 2009 | 0 Comments

marley OK, I have come to the conclusion that I just suck at trying to blog regularly.  I think I just need to make it a personal goal, and then it may work a little better.

We’ve come to the last year of the first decade of the 21st Century.  Time is flying by, as I’ve realized that when you have kids, the clock just starts rolling a little faster.  We went as a family to see Marley & Me, and I highly recommend it, especially if you’re in need of a good cry.  I felt a little misled, honestly, as I went into the theatre thinking I was going to watch a comedy.  While there were comedic elements to be sure (how can it not be with Owen Wilson as the star?), it wasn’t a comedy.  Nor was it, as Zoni and I thought, a kid’s movie. 

This movie absolutely blindsided me, as it was a essentially a microcosm of my life.  The family has 2 boys and 1 girl (in that order, just like our family); the father of the family struggles with not being sure if he’s doing the right job, and then finally accepting that he’s good at what he does; the mother has struggles with staying at home and there’s frustration of possible missed opportunities, etc.  Wonderful movie and I absolutely bawled my eyes out, contemplating the things that I had seen in my life and how grateful I was for my family, and the the life that I have, rather than thinking about the things I might not have.

We had a great year last year, in every way.  Luckily, the economy hasn’t really impacted us, as my job is quite solid and allows me to grow and develop.  I had the opportunity to return to developing, which I love doing anyway.  While we had some challenges, we have never been closer as a family, and I hope that as we enter our 10th year as a family (as of January 16th), it will help us grow even closer.

Happy, Prosperous and Lovely New Year!

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