Happy New Year (version 2009.1.2)!!!

By riceboyler on Jan 02 2009 | 0 Comments

marley OK, I have come to the conclusion that I just suck at trying to blog regularly.  I think I just need to make it a personal goal, and then it may work a little better.

We’ve come to the last year of the first decade of the 21st Century.  Time is flying by, as I’ve realized that when you have kids, the clock just starts rolling a little faster.  We went as a family to see Marley & Me, and I highly recommend it, especially if you’re in need of a good cry.  I felt a little misled, honestly, as I went into the theatre thinking I was going to watch a comedy.  While there were comedic elements to be sure (how can it not be with Owen Wilson as the star?), it wasn’t a comedy.  Nor was it, as Zoni and I thought, a kid’s movie. 

This movie absolutely blindsided me, as it was a essentially a microcosm of my life.  The family has 2 boys and 1 girl (in that order, just like our family); the father of the family struggles with not being sure if he’s doing the right job, and then finally accepting that he’s good at what he does; the mother has struggles with staying at home and there’s frustration of possible missed opportunities, etc.  Wonderful movie and I absolutely bawled my eyes out, contemplating the things that I had seen in my life and how grateful I was for my family, and the the life that I have, rather than thinking about the things I might not have.

We had a great year last year, in every way.  Luckily, the economy hasn’t really impacted us, as my job is quite solid and allows me to grow and develop.  I had the opportunity to return to developing, which I love doing anyway.  While we had some challenges, we have never been closer as a family, and I hope that as we enter our 10th year as a family (as of January 16th), it will help us grow even closer.

Happy, Prosperous and Lovely New Year!

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She’s FINALLY almost home…

By riceboyler on Dec 03 2008 | 0 Comments

What a week and a half, and what a way for it to end.  Zoni has spent the last week and a half in Anchorage with her sister and left me with all 3 kids by myself for that time.  It’s been challenging, but so very rewarding.  I feel so much closer to them than I ever have and it’s just a wonderful feeling to be that close.

Unfortunately, while I should be sitting at the airport right now waiting to pick up Zoni, she’s still on the way to Chicago because she missed her first flight this morning out of Anchorage to Chicago.  She had to get a different flight to Seattle and then to Chicago, and then tomorrow morning, she finally will get home at 8:30ish.

This almost feels like a cruel trick or something because I wanted and needed her so desperately to be home tonight.  I guess 10 hours later isn’t a life or death thing, but still quite difficult.

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